- Senior Living Directory
- In-Home Care
- Adult Daycare Centers
- Home Health Agencies
- Senior Home Remodeling
- Senior Move Managers
- Assisted Living
- Nursing Homes
- Alzheimer's Care
- Retirement Communities
- Continuing Care Communities
- Area Agency on Aging
- Geriatric Care Managers
- Elder Law Attorneys
- Government Health Insurance Counselors
- Hospice Care
- Funeral Homes
- Providers: Get Listed
- Search Senior Housing Options Near You...
- Caregiving at Home
- Area Agency On Aging
- Blog: Dad Has Dementia
- Geriatric Care Managers
- Home Care Help
- Home Health Agencies
- Medicare Information Finder
- State-by-State Driving Laws
- Blog: Tech-Savvy Daughter
- Caregiver Community
- Ask & Answer
- Aging in Place
- Find In-Home Care
- Home Care Safety
- Meals & Nutrition
- Adult Day Care
- Difficult Conversations
- Managing Difficult Behaviors
- Driving & Transportation
- End Of Life
- Managing Medications
- Paying for Care
- Preparing for Home Care
- Senior Home Remodeling
- See All In-Home Care
- Health A-Z
- Atrial Fibrillation
- Breast Cancer
- Chemotherapy
- Steps & Stages
- Medicare Information Finder
- Benefits Check Finder
- Fracture Risk Calculator
- Older Patients, Wiser Care
- Caregiver Community
- Ask & Answer
- Alzheimer's Disease
- Broken Hip
- Cancer
- Colorectal Cancer
- Lung Cancer
- Multiple Myeloma
- Ovarian Cancer
- Prostate Cancer
- Cholesterol
- Cold & Flu
- COPD
- Depression
- Diabetes
- End of Life
- Epilepsy
- Heart Attack
- Heart Concerns
- Hypertension
- Incontinence
- Managing Medications
- Multiple Sclerosis
- Osteoarthritis
- Pain Management
- Parkinson's Disease
- Rheumatoid Arthritis
- Schizophrenia
- Shingles
- Sleep Problems
- Smoking - Quitting
- Stroke
- See All Health Issues
- Money & Legal
- State-by-State Driving Laws
- Benefits Check Finder
- Ask & Answer
- Caregiver Community
- Medicare Information Finder
- Get Paid for Caregiving
- Advance Health Directive/Living Will
- Elderlaw Attorneys
- End of Life
- Estate Planning
- Family Legal & Financial Conflicts
- Financial Assistance for Seniors
- Government Health Insurance Counselors
- Guardianship
- Medicaid Info
- Medicare Info
- Paying for Care
- Power of Attorney
- Reverse Mortgages
- Caregiver Wellness
- Your Health
- Breast Cancer
- Fibromyalgia
- High Blood Pressure
- Overactive Bladder
- End of Life
- Food & Fitness
- Blog: Dear Family Advisor
- Blog: Self Caring
- Blog: Smile of the Week
- Lifestyle
- Your Finances
- Sex & Relationships
- Cholesterol
- Depression
- Osteoarthritis
- Osteoporosis
- Rheumatoid Arthritis
- Sleep Problems
- Caregiver Community
- Ask & Answer
- My Caring




The job of a caregiver is much more demanding than rearing your own children and for sure, you will feel as if you're taking care of a larger size child. If you have doubts at this point, take it from me they only grow into larger doubts. This is like stacking a ton of bricks on your head and being forced to run a marathon. I have been there, and I know first hand what it is to feel free after your children are grown and gone-enjoy it. If it is okay for you to take care of your mother-in-law and be paid, can't they pay an independent caregiver the same sallary? No, I guess it will save them a lot of money. But what I am almost certain of, is that it could also cost you your health, sanity or even your life when things gets tougher, and trust me they do. The role of a caregiver is no easy bite to chew- it's tough and rugged terrain
Inasmuch as I am all for family members pitching in and supporting in the time of need, my opinion is in this order. Unless they are all willing to contribute additionally to her social security, 401k and a reasonable health insurance, I strongly suggest she stand her ground. The disabled children should cough up the funds to bring in a qualified caretaker. Bless your Spirit! RevYarb