I was the beneficiary of my mother's trust deposit until that was changed to her husband's name a couple of months before she died -- and I think it was done illegally.
By Carol O'Dell, Caring.com contributing editor
Last updated:
August 04, 2008
littlebit10
said...
almost 4 years ago
Hi i was a caregiver of a elderly man with Alzheimer's before i came into the home the daughter was in charge until she fixed everything to go to herself down to interest at the end of the month well it took many days to just get the accounts caught up with and the bank refusing to cash his CD interest check because of how she had them sent , that plus credit cards in his name she had well i had to put in a plan where he could have money for living plus cost of his health coverage within a short time she just knew no one was the wiser , sad to say the lies and stealing from him was forgotten but i never thought a child could be so selfish and after all was in order and she left him in tears not seeing the grandchildren he had seen everyday she would stop drop off pictures and walk away but greed may have taken your moms husband. I do know we had a lawyer help prepare his last will and not long after when his power of attorney had to be given to his son who had taken care of him until he pass, even after death she still wanted her share as she stated went to court to take it she was asked how often did she help with the care of her father? Then the judge read the will leaving her ALL OF MY LOVE ' well all was settled not getting what she wanted but most of all Troy always loved her to the end.That was priceless.