Family Advisor Archive October 2009

  1. I'm wracked with guilt for enjoying life again now that my husband is in a care home. October 31, 2009

    I recently had to place my husband, who has Alzheimer's, in a nearby care home. I could check on him every day, but I'm not sure it's a good idea. When I leave, he gets teary and begs me to move in with him. He initiates sex, but maybe because of the dementia, he no longer feels like my husband that way......  Read more


  2. My mom says my dad isn't my biological father -- and I can't tell if it's the truth or her dementia talking. October 24, 2009

    Biological Father Doubts . Learn whether or not to trust deathbed confessions, such as whether your dad is your biological father....  Read more


  3. I'm afraid my husband, who has a terminal disease, is suicidal October 17, 2009

    Suicidal Tendency in Spouse. Advice and resources for caregivers who fear a loved one who has suicidal tendencies from terminal illness....  Read more


  4. My sister won't care for Mom even though she lives in the same town. I do everything, but I live 800 miles away! October 10, 2009

    How to deal with resentment over a sibling who doesn't help, when you're a long-distance caregiver....  Read more


  5. I'm your classic burned out caregiver and don't know how much longer I can do this. October 03, 2009

    How to force a change when you're the default caregiver....  Read more