Three years ago, my husband had a stroke. His speech is severely impaired, as is his ability to walk. We have a full-time caregiver during the day -- actually, we've had many -- but my husband doesn't want anyone caring for him but me. I'm the only one who can understand his garbled speech, and if I leave the room for more than ten minutes he's upset and yelling for me.
The worst part is that he punishes me for going to an appointment alone or, heaven forbid, having a little fun like meeting a friend. When I return, he's sulky, won't take his meds, and sometimes refuses to eat. He treats me horribly for days after.
I feel trapped. Although I love him dearly, I've begun to resent him. There are times when I wish God would take him -- what good is he here if he's this miserable? I can't believe I said that, but I did. How do I go on caring for him when I'm this resentful?
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