My mother's caregiver is too controlling and won't take direction from us.

I do not think that anyone should ever control a family like that for the sake of caring for anyone. Your Mom's house should feel like your own. It is a Caretaker's responsibility to not only take care of the patient but to understand the emotional needs of the family as well. This person should be let go immediately. Do not think twice. There are plenty of caregivers out there that are ready to take on the responsibility. I am sorry you've had to go through this so far. K

Caregiver" they are there for all of you. First no-one should ever take that much controll or even think that they have it. There are plenty other Cna's out there that would be more of a fit for your situation. You ove it to your Mother to make sure this person is a open minded and loving person. Look for signals....Is she in a rush to get you out? Is she quick with you Mother's care? How clean does she come to work.? Your are a family and it is to be an honor to be part of it no matter what and that's your mommy take controll ... Been a cna for a long time...