Dear Family Advisor Archive December 2011

  1. My brother is bent out of shape because he wasn't named executor of our parent's estate -- I was. January 03, 2012

    Siblings can get jealous about the different roles their elderly parents assign them. How to handle a sibling who's angry at your parents' decision....  Read more


  2. I'm torn between caring for my partner's parents and getting ready for my own new baby. December 27, 2011

    Caring for older parents plus your own family is difficult, especially for younger caregivers. How to handle needy parents versus a new baby....  Read more


  3. Money and Siblings December 20, 2011

    Family members may fail to understand the cost and commitment that goes into being the primary caregiver. How to clarify your worth as a caregiver....  Read more


  4. Dad's in hospice and I'm afraid this is our last Christmas together -- but my brother isn't even planning to come into town! December 13, 2011

    It's troubling when a family member responds to impending death in a way we don't understand or approve of. How to handle someone who seems callous....  Read more


  5. Mom is jealous of Dad's care aide! December 06, 2011

    An in-home aide can make all the difference -- but not if anyone becomes jealous or uncomfortable. How to help a spouse who's jealous of a care aide....  Read more