Dear Family Advisor Archive July 2010

1. Dad has given up on Mom since her stroke. July 27, 2010

   Why has Dad Given Up on Mom Since Her Stroke? You have two parents who need you right now, each in their own way. And as much as it seems like your dad doesn't care anymore, I'm guessing he does. Every marriage is different, and there may be more going on "behind the scenes" than you realize. ...  Read more

   Carol O'Dell, Caring.com contributing editor
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2. I'm not sure I'm ready to take care of two parents plus two kids. July 20, 2010

   It doesn't have to be an either-or situation: children versus parents. Caring for two parents is a huge undertaking under the best of circumstances. But our biological instinct tells us that our primary responsibility is to our children....  Read more

   Carol O'Dell, Caring.com contributing editor
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3. My sister is a caregiving martyr! July 13, 2010

   What you can do to escape the guilt that often comes with caregiving. It's common for siblings to have very different caregiving styles. Continue to be just who you are. Do what feels right....  Read more

   Carol O'Dell, Caring.com contributing editor
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4. My mother's new husband is so cheap that he won't provide the care she needs. July 06, 2010

   Advice on how much an adult child should interfere with the care choices of a parent's spouse. Paying for senior care can be incredibly difficult, especially when you are trying to save for your own children....  Read more

   Carol O'Dell, Caring.com contributing editor
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