Secret Cure for Deadly Stress: Taking the Team Approach
Are you trying to do too much? It could be killing you.
By Melanie Haiken, Caring.com senior editor
Last updated:
May 27, 2010
An anonymous caregiver
said...
11 months ago
Just re-enforced my gut feeling, thanks
jacquee
said...
over 1 year ago
Family members sharing responsibilities is very important, not only for my stress relief, but for their
own well being.
I am not very happy with my primary care physician, and now I might do something about that.
I have numerous neurological problems, and am very happy with my neurologist. He understands and validates my illness. For years doctors would prescribe palliative meds because they thought my pain was "all in my head", and never investigated the cause. So all that time allowed my problems to worsen without proper treatment. I could go on and on about my anger at doctors, but let me just say that I am glad I found this site.
I don't have Alzheimer's, but I do have MCI, and I have a problem with focusing on and completing tasks..
melvinchun
said...
almost 2 years ago
stress is a killer and it all depends on the individual i always try to block it out of my mind and think of something else it all depends on the situation its hard but all you can do is try instead of getting eatten up physically n mentally
mamag86
said...
almost 2 years ago
For years I was caregiver for an ailing/demented husband. A couple of years after his death I was bulldozed into moving in with mjy daughter who thought I needed help. I really dont (no I am not in denial) as my health has improved immeasurably since moving in with her. BUT....I am approaching 88 and I know my time will come. We are talking, talking, talking. This website has been a big help. When I read something that I think might be germane in the future I email it to her. She can write checks on my bank account and my funeral is all taken care of. Now we go into the unknown of the next few years. Keep giving us knowledge and tips.
Shannon69
said...
almost 2 years ago
I just found out that my mother has melanoma that has now spread to a few of her lymph nodes so when I ran into this site I thought that it must have "been meant to be", so here I am, my very first time ever leaving a comment, or replying to anything online. I hope I can be some kind of positive addition to this whole process as a care-giver as well. I know, at the very least, I will add entertainment.
bevmharlow
said...
almost 2 years ago
I think perhaps We have a disabled--mentally and physically--son living with us, his 15 yr. old son, and our 20 yr. old grandson
An anonymous caregiver
said...
almost 2 years ago
Hi, i work for the family resource network in Brick, NJ. We are a non profit organization supporting those with developmental disabilities and their families. We are having a National Caregivers Conference on October 26, 2010 in Iselin, New Jersey. The website is www.nationalcaregiversconference.org
Please post this to your blog that way anyone intersted can attend! Thanks for helping spead the word!
Best 4 Me
said...
almost 2 years ago
Sometimes stress is too many demands on our time and our emotions. But sometimes our own run down, toxin filled and nutritionally depleated bodies are making us act and react like we are overstressed when if we were fit in every way, we could handle these life happenings more effectively and in total control. For more on building up your nutrition and improving the environment you live in go to this site. http://www.BringingWellnessHome.com/sharper
AngelWings14
said...
almost 2 years ago
A balanced diet is also needed in order to have a healthy body thus, healthy mind as well. You may visit this site for additional information: http://www.completedietinfo.com
AngelWings14
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almost 2 years ago
There's always a time for everything. It's only a matter of time management. When you do something, do it in focus and don't think about anything else unrelated or insignificant. When you're done, move on with your next task doing the same thing...keyword is FOCUS! This way you can avoid stress because your mind is not mixed up with all things at one time.
regina1
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almost 2 years ago
this is a workable plan!I could call a family meeting and we could discuss this with this approach. We have tried a meeting before, but nothing much came of it, in fact some members were offended by it and i just did not know how to address the issue very well. It would be great if there was a plan to print out to bring to a family meeting with these issues addressed and spelled out like this, Hey, i could even have T-shirts made!