Alzheimer's Care Dilemma: No End In Sight, But Plenty of Guilt Over Wishing It Were By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor Last updated: February 23, 2010 << Return to Blog Post Debra111 Debra111 said... over 1 year ago All I can say is that this disease is very hard on everyone. It will wear you down. There are so many internal conflicts you don't know which way to turn. Being the primary caregiver is very hard work and emotionally draining. Join the Conversation Comment E-mail Already registered? Sign in to comment Screen Name: The name other caregivers seewhen you contribute on the site.Eg. Chris or Son in Seattle Reply anonymously Notify me of new comments by e-mail Leave a Comment