Questions About Bath Care

  1. How do I get my father to bathe when he refuses to do anything but just wash off?

    Question - Many elderly people become reluctant to bathe, and there are various reasons for this. It may be balance problems, causing a fear of falling; discomfort with temperature changes, the cool or heat of a bath/shower water; modesty (especially if they need help bathing); or body pain associated with standing, bending, or sitting...
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  2. Is there an alternative to washing my mom's private areas?

    Question - Yes, this really must be done daily. The genital area is one of those parts of the body that need to stay clean, especially the backside. Anywhere that's fleshy and moist is prime territory for bacteria growth, which can cause odors and skin irritation.
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  3. How can I encourage my listless mom to bathe?

    Question - There's always a reason behind decisions made by older people, especially when it comes to personal care.
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  4. What can I do to help my dad stay comfortable during bath time?

    Question - It would be a good idea to start by checking with your father's doctor to make sure your dad isn't sick.
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  5. What are some budget-friendly ways to keep my mom safe during bathing?

    Question - Think prevention. At the very least, you should have a rubber tub mat, a handheld shower hose, a tub chair, and a nonskid floor rug. If you can't afford a tub chair or bench, which cost $40 to $100, look for a small plastic chair with a back that will fit in your tub. But be cautious: Some plastic chairs are flimsy and hazardous...
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  6. How often do I need to bathe my parent?

    Question - There are two ways to look at this question. How often do you need to bathe your father, and how often should you bathe him?
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  7. How can we get Grandpa to have more sanitary habits?

    Question - This sounds like a really tough situation. First, I want to say that taking care of one older person is difficult enough, but taking care of two- that can be too much. You sound stressed, and this situation is not going well even though you are trying your best.
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  8. How can I wash my mother's hair when she resists shampooing?

    Question - It's not uncommon for an older person to be sensitive about having her hair handled or getting her face wet, especially if she's got dementia or Alzheimer's. She may find it irritating and even frightening.
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  9. How often do I need to shampoo my dad's hair?

    Question - It's a confusing issue, because many of us shampoo our own hair daily and consider this the norm. In reality, there's no need to shampoo every day. What's more, daily shampooing can dry out the hair and scalp. Unless there's a medical reason to shampoo more often, weekly or even less is fine.
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  10. Can you offer any advice on bathing a modest parent?

    Question - You can try covering her with a towel, but frankly it's almost possible to keep your mom covered with a towel for the whole bath. Try this approach: wrap a towel around her waist if she's standing, or place it over her lap if she's sitting...
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  11. Can you offer any tips for bathing an overweight parent?

    Question - Sometimes bathing is a two-person job, so first try to enlist other family members or friends to help. You want to be careful not to hurt yourself, and muscle pulls, back strains, and bad falls do happen this way. If you overdo it, there's risk for both you and your father...
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  12. What should I do if my parent resists bathing?

    Question - If your mother is resisting a bath to the point of fighting -- and this happens, especially with people who have Alzheimer's or dementia -- stop and try again tomorrow or the next day. We all have bad days, including our parents, and letting it go until a better time is OK...
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  13. How do I get my great grandfather to wash his body?

    Question - When I hear of this type of situation, my first thought is that your great grandfather probably needs more skilled support, either to help him bathe or to re-teach him bathing skills. Activities like showering are considered "activities of daily living," and an occupational therapist is very skilled...
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  14. Is there an alternative to washing my father's private areas?

    Question - You really do have to do this daily. This part of the body needs to stay clean, especially the backside. Anywhere that's fleshy and sweaty is prone to bacteria that can cause odors and skin irritations. Try not to get hung up on it. It's best to think about it in the same way as if you were washing a baby or a child...
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  15. Can my grandmother get a safety bath tub from Medicaid?

    Question - Your grandmother can get special bathing equipment paid for by Medicaid if Medicaid provides her with home health care services. That means she has to meet her state's Medicaid requirements for nursing facility or home care. These requirements usually include the inability to perform, without assistance...
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  16. How can I convince my wife to bathe?

    Question - It is strange how we are sometimes just stopped in our tracks. For a time there is nothing to do but live with a wife who is less than hygenic.
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  17. What can I do to help convince my dad to bathe more often?

    Question - Issues around bathing and aging are common, which doesn't mean they're easy to solve. You ask a question that several others have asked -- within the past week! I'm hoping our accumulated experience and expertise can help you with your dad. Many older people avoid bathing - for all kinds of reasons...
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  18. How do I help Dad with his personal hygiene?

    Question - Thank you for asking this delicate question. Illness and smells are often part of caring for frail elders.
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  19. How can we get my grandmother to bathe?

    Question - Refusing to bathe is fairly common among elderly people, and there are several reasons for this. Bathing can become painful as muscles weaken and joints stiffen. Many seniors have balance problems, and fear falling. Depression can also make seniors lethargic about self-care; kind of like, "I'm going to die soon, so what's the point...
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  20. What's the best way to deal with my dad, who has Alzheimer's, on issues such as bathing?

    Question - There is a film I saw last week which provides ideas for some of the issues - "I Remember Better When Paint" is the main film, and then the supplemental films on the DVD look at how some caregivers are working with patients on what they can do - putting on clothes, heping to prepare a meal. I think seeing this film will help you...
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  21. How do I get my abled-bodied mom to bathe?

    Question - This is a hard question. First, I would try to find out why she isn't bathing. Keep in mind that some people have never bathed that often, and don't change this habit as they get older. Try asking her why she doesn't want to bathe. If you can get a conversation going, this may shed light on what's going on...
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  22. What can we do if the Alzheimer's facility that my mom lives in won't bathe her?

    Question - I have been working in this field for over 35 years and this astounds me! I know resident rights are important but your mother has been diagnosed with a dementia and symptoms of dementia are that they are unable to process information to make good decisions. An Alzheimer's facility should have been able to take care of this problem...
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  23. How can I deal with my mother, who has Alzheimer's, and her fear of water?

    Question - Thank you for this question. Fear of water is very common. So is fear of being told what to do. Fear of water on the back is often an expression of feeling helpless.
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  24. Can I Get Paid to Be a Family Caregiver?

    Question - It's possible to get regular payments for providing care for a housebound family member, depending on the family member's income and assets, need for care, and the state he or she lives in. Public assistance programs in many states can provide payment directly to a low-income person who is determined to need in-home care...
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  25. How can I get paid for taking care of parents?

    Question - There are two ways you might get paid for taking care of your parents -- in addition to your parents paying you directly. Depending on the rules in your state, you might be able to get paid as a home care aide if your parents qualify for the state's Medicaid program and Medicaid providing them with home care...
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  26. Mom won't use the bath even though we've equipped it for her.

    Question - You are not alone! So many caregivers struggle over the parent's refusing to bathe in the tub. Tub baths are nice. Soaking parts of the body is hygienic. But don't worry. There are so many products to help cleanse and refresh.
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  27. Will the VA hospital provide bathing services?

    Question - If he is a veteran he is entitle to VA Medical care depending on his income. Also depending on the time he was in service he may also be entitled to additional money to help pay for care. Without more information it is almost impossible to tell what he is really entitled to...
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  28. Is it all right to bathe in warm water when there is a blood clot in a toe?

    Question - It's OK to bathe in warm water if the blood clot is internal (in the inside of the leg -- this is called a deep vein thrombosis) and the doctor has given the OK to getting out of bed and doing activities. If the blood clot is on the outside skin (like a wound), I'd ask the doctor before I bathed it in warm water...
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  29. How can I convince my father to bathe more often?

    Question - I hope you got the answer I posted to your earlier email. If not, post again. Thanks.
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  30. My wife, age 88, does not like to take a shower. Is this normal?

    Question - Just in the past week, I've had a number of questions about bathing. It really is common for older people to struggle with baths and showers and there are many understandable reasons for this. I'm going to assume this is a new development for your wife, versus how she's always been. If your wife has balance or strength problems, she may fear falling...
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  31. How do we transition her from baths to showers?

    Question - You are not alone; this is a frequently asked question to which there really are some practical answers.
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  32. How can I get my parent to wear adult diapers?

    Question - You don't mention if your mother is having problems with urination as well. I'm also curious why your mom came to live with you? Does she have the ability to live independently? Was she having bowel problems before she moved in with you? These are all factors that help me understand how best to help...
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  33. Is bathing a patient at 5 am good, for the patient who is...

    Question - Is bathing a patient at 5 am good, for the patient who is bed ridden ?
  34. What will help relieve itchy skin in elderly mother?

    Question - Itchy skin is a tough problem, and one that I am familiar with myself. Here are my suggestions:
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  35. If my father is uncircumcised, should I retract the foreskin when bathing him?

    Question - Sounds like you are doing everything right. You are correct that when cleansing someone who is uncircumsized, you should retract the foreskin. Do this gently, and carefully wash the area. Then, be sure the place the foreskin back over the penis when you are done.
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  36. Should we put mom into a nursing home?

    Question - My mother had three strokes fifteen years ago. She had 24/7 caregivers for most of that time. Due to financial problems, I am now her sole caregiver, she lives with my husband and myself. We tried two months with a sister in another state and that didn't work out. This may sound cold, but are there any guidelines as to when she should enter a nursing home...
  37. Is failing to bathe unhealthy?

    Question - I have recently discovered that my 93 year old mother in law has not bathed in over 7-8 months. During this time she lived at home with aides coming in every week, but when she became ill she had to move to a nursing home for 4 months until a recent move to an assisted living facility...
  38. Shower after heart surgery: when is it safe?

    Question - Frankly, I am surprised that they did not tell you this information when your husband was discharged from the hospital. Usually, once you are discharged from the hospital, it is OK to shower using a mild soap, as long as the incisions look good. However, I would recommend you call your husband's surgeon and ask, as this would be the safest thing to do...
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  39. How can I help my mother who believes she is constantly dirty?

    Question - In my experience, older adults can develop these kind of disordered thoughts, especially if they have dementia. If you know that your mother's thoughts of being dirty are obsessive, and they are interfering with her daily life, then she needs to be evaluated by her health care professional to see what is going on...
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  40. What are the best soaps for skin when bathing a senior citizen?

    Question - Skin on older people is very dry and can be easily irritated. Dial is very strong and perfumed, so it is very drying and can be very irritating to the skin. Also, I know that Ivory is supposed to be "pure" and not perfumed, but it is a very harsh soap. It will also really dry out the skin.
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  41. How can I help someone with a dementia bathe and stay clean?

    Question - You can do several things to help someone with dementia stay clean. It's important because the person may forget about washing up, may forget how to do so, or may have fears that get in the way of bathing (such as a fear of falling or fear of water). He may also resent intrusion in a private matter, so you need to proceed with tact...
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  42. What can be done to help thick and curled over toenails?

    Question - Thick toenails are quite a common problem as people get older. Let me reassure you that your thick toenails are probably caused by a common fungal infection, not something as serious as lung cancer. The best way to evaluate your toenail problem is to be seen by a podiatrist...
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  43. My wife and I have been caring for my 88 year old father for...

    Question - The short answer to your question is that this is not normal. And not because all people bathe and shave and brush their teeth every single day, but because you insinuated that your father once did these things regularly and now he doesn’t. A decline in functioning is always a cause for concern inin my book...
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  44. How can I work with Mom's long-term care facility to assist her in having a nice warm bath?

    Question - Arranging a tub bath in a long term care facility should be fairly simple. First step is to find out if they have a bath tub. Some facilities have only showers because they are so much safer for older adults. If that is the case in your mother's facility, then you will probably need to take her out, perhaps to your home, for a tub bath...
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  45. What are the recommended magnified lighted mirrors to help with macular degeneration?

    Question - Choosing magnifying mirrors is a very individual matter. The mirrors come with different levels of magnification, some are lighted, some attach to another mirror via suction cups, some mount on a wall, and others sit on a flat surface.
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  46. Grandpa refuses to allow us to help him bathe, but he's smells horribly. What can we do?

    Question - Thank you for your letter. Your family wants to keep your grandfather comfortable at home-----and are willing to sacrifice their own comfort. As your grandfather nears the end of his life, he wants to hold onto himself by striking out at others. He refuses to bathe and sits in his own waste. It is not personal;he is tense and frightened...
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  47. How often should the elderly bathe?

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  48. How can you encourage a person to take a bath /shower?

    Question - My mother -in-law stays in an independant living facility with nursing support. She refuses to let the caregivers help her bathe. She says that she has already taken a bath and threatens to call 911 if they touch her.Family members have also tried to help her,but she refuses assistance. What can we do to help...
  49. How do I talk to my father about the mess he makes in the bathroom when he urinates?

    Question - This is a frustrating problem, and one that's understandably difficult for a daughter to talk about with her dad. First of all, I'd talk to your father's doctor about the situation, and consider a check-up. There could be medical reasons your dad is missing the toilet more, such as vision problems; stiff...
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  50. How can I ease my father's discomfort when I have to help him with physically intimate tasks?

    Question - It has to be difficult for your father to have you see him in such a vulnerable position. This kind of situation comes up whenever an adult child is caring for a parent, but it's hardest when you're caring for a parent of the opposite sex.
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  51. How do I get my dad out of the bathtub?

    Question - The bathroom is the one room in the house that is most often the site of accidents that can seriously limit a senior's ability to live independently, so are are wise to be concerned for your father's safety. If taking a bath rather than a shower is something your father enjoys, there are alternative ways to get him out of the bathtub after a bath...
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  52. How do we get my mother-in-law, who has Alzheimer's, to allow us to clean her house or bathe her?

    Question - Your mother-in-law's resistance to cleaning may be because this is her home and she resents others taking control of it. Or it may be the disruption in routine, the extra noise and commotion. Two things to try: 1) Give her a task, such as dusting or pushing the va...
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  53. Why does my mother go backward? What are the signs of abuse?

    Question - my 85 year old mother has some issues with bathing and dressing for other people. Every time shes ok with it and its easier for me to take care of her and bathe her, she goes with my sister in law over night so I can get a break, and when she comes back I go through the torture of it all over again to change and bathe her...
  54. How can I get my mother to bathe?

    Question - I have tried all of the things mentioned in order to get my 77 yr. old mother to bathe, to no avail. She is able bodied except for some arthritis. But the bathing or even showering is becoming very difficult. Her room smells and at times I can even smell it some in the rest of the house. Honestly, it is making me ill...
  55. Is giving whirlpool baths daily in a communal spa good for the elderly?

    Question - An assisted living I know of gives residents daily baths in a whirlpool tub, like the ones advertised on TV. This tub is used for every resident and wiped down between baths. Is this hygienic and is it even good for the elderly to bath that often?
  56. How can I separate a family with multiple "needers" of care?

    Question - I am providing care for my bedridden mother at home. I also look after my father who is quite fragile and becoming more and more dependant on me. Along with that, I have no choice but to provide care for my older, mentally disabled siblings who have never lived away from their home...
  57. Is there a better way to get someone with dementia to take a shower or bath?

    Question - Dear facility caregiver, thank you for the work you do with patients on the dementia unit where you work.
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  58. How do I bathe a dementia patient who is becoming increasingly aggressive?

    Question - @ CA-Claire. Some more progressive facilities give their staff to be creative with residents, including getting into the shower with a resident. Another is to give a sponge bath while the resident is being distracted. I recently spoke to a couple of professional caregivers who had gone through "role-reversal with residents" as part of their training...
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  59. How can I get my husband to hold his penis when he uses the bathroom?

    Question - When reading your question, my thought is that you may need to go into the bathroom with your husband to help him urinate at this point in his dementia. First, you can try to remind him to hold his penis as he is standing in front of the toilet...
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  60. How can I convince my mother that using wipes isn't a good replacement for a proper bath?

    Question - This is a tough situation. I have a feeling that there may be several issues going on. First, she wants to remain independent, and she is able to cleanse herself with these wipes without anyone's help. They must be working, as you say she doesn't have an odor...
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  61. How can I bathe my mom with dementia who passes out from fear?

    Question - I’m so sorry to hear about your mother’s intense reactions to bathing. Fortunately there are ways you can deal with this and you certainly won’t ever need to sedate her nor should anyone allow a nursing home to sedate a person to give her a bath.
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  62. FAQ: What's the Difference Between an Elder Companion and a Personal Aide?

    Question - Although people often use the terms interchangeably, there's a difference between an elder companion and a personal aide in terms of both responsibilities and training.
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  63. FAQ: What's the Best Way to Keep My Loved One From Falling out of Bed?

    Question - Start by trying to figure out why the falling is happening. Is the person rolling out of bed, or getting up and then falling?
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  64. FAQ: Can I Choose My Home Healthcare Provider?

    Question - Usually, yes. Your treating physician or the hospital or nursing facility where you're a patient will probably refer a particular home healthcare agency. But if you know a different agency you'd prefer or are dissatisfied with the agency your doctor or hospital chooses (or with the particular nurses...
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  65. What kind of financial aid programs are available to full-time caregivers?

    Question - You might find a little cash assistance if you and your husband have low income and assets. In that case, your husband might qualify for in-home care from Medicaid or similar state program. Until recently, he'd have to get that Medicaid in-home care through a certified home care agency...
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  66. As a veteran's widow, what home health care benefit is Mom eligible for?

    Question - As the widow of an eligible service connected veteran, Mom may be eligible to receive VA Death Pension Benefits to help supplement the cost of in home health care services. Since there are a number of [criteria that may affect eligibility] (http://www.vba.va.gov/bln/21/pension/spousepen...
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  67. When should I wake my father up to preform personal cleansing tasks?

    Question - Sorry to hear your dad is not doing well. It is good that you are helping to take care of him, as I am sure this is a comfort for him. The hospice team can help you with your questions anytime, so do not feel bad for asking them advice, as this is a hard time for you too.
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  68. How can I help my husband get is clean after he uses the bathroom?

    Question - Reading your letter, I have a few suggestions on how he can get his backside cleaner.
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  69. How often should adult diapers be changed to avoid a UTI?

    Question - Urinary tract infections(UTI)are a common problem for many women, young and old. However, in the elderly they can be a big problem as the symptoms are often hard to recognize and they can be difficult to treat. The risk of getting a UTI becomes even higher as incontinence worsens...
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  70. How can I stop my mother with dementia from handling her feces and to wash her hands?

    Question - This is a very difficult situation as you cannot expect your mother to change a life long habit when she has dementia. Give her fiber caps on a regular basis to see if that helps without having to use a laxative. I'm assuming that her diet is full of fiber that will naturally help her with elimination problems...
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  71. How can we convince someone with dementia to brush their teeth?

    Question - This is an important question, because the process of disease and infection that takes place before teeth “fall out” can be a serious health issue. The mouth is very often a hidden nest of infection that seeds bacteria to the heart, lungs, and kidneys of the older adult popula...
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  72. Grandpa won't move out and won't bathe. Help?

    Question - First a better understanding of the term 'Dementia' will help you deal with behavioral problems such as refusing to bathe and refusing to move out of the current home. When a person has Dementia, he loses the ability to solve problems and even to recognize that he has a problem. In his reality, he is fine and you are the person making unreasonable demands...
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  73. What are some tips for shampooing wheelchair patients?

    Question - Usually, if someone lives in a nursing home, they are showered a couple times a week, which would include a shampoo. If a patient is not able to walk or stand, they are usually showered in a shower chair. The most popular shower chair is made of plastic, has wheels and handles (arms), with a seat that looks like a commode seat...
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  74. My mom is undergoing chemo - but she won't wash her hands!

    Question - This can be so frustrating, but hang in there. You need to understand why she is not doing that. My guess is that extra step takes energy out of her that she may not want to use. It's an effort to go into another room, partially undress, bend, redress, balance, and walk back to where she was before...
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  75. Are there any agencies that can assist my wife with the in-home care of her mother?

    Question - You are wise to research this question.
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  76. What social services for widow of veteran are available? Does it include home health care?

    Question - Just because you are not paying for services does not mean that services should not meet industry standards. Following a care plan, being attentive to needs and helping your mother feel safe and secure in her situation are all standards that an agency aide should meet. Your question states that you are using Medicare-Medicaid for services...
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  77. Which is a better choice - temporary nursing home care or in-home nursing care?

    Question - Most people do not have the luxury of choosing between nursing care in a facility and private in-home nursing care. While nursing home care is expensive, averging around $6,000 a month, that is cheaper than in-home nursing care. Private duty nurses charge around $100/hour...
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  78. When a good in-home caregiver loses enthusiasm, how can I get her back on board?

    Question - You're doing the right thing by asking your parent's in-home caregiver how she feels. Being honest and direct is the best way to encourage a caregiver to be the same way with you.
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  79. Would Medicare cover services recommended by an in-home evaluation?

    Question - If your mother's doctor orders an in-home evaluation by a home care agency, that evaluation would almost certainly be covered by Medicare Part B. But whether Medicare would cover any services the agency recommended, even if prescribed by your mother's doctor, is more complicated. Medicare coverage for home care services is very limited...
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  80. Should we hire in-home care or insist on Assisted Living?

    Question - Hiring in-home help is a temporary fix for a permanent problem. Dementia is always going to progress; a person with dementia is going to become less functional and more needy over time. Getting in-home help is a band-aid on the wound, and is a great deal more expensive.
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  81. How much say do you have in choosing a Medicaid home care provider?

    Question - Home care covered by Medicaid is usually provided only by a Medicaid-certified home health care agency. The amount of and type of care provided, and paid for by Medicaid, is based on the Medicaid beneficiary's need -- there is no pre-set amount of home care...
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  82. How do we convince our mother to allow in-home help to care for our dying father?

    Question - In truth, you may be attempting the impossible. If adult children could be flies on the walls of their parents' homes, what many would hear most often would be the lament that their kids have become overly bossy or controlling -- a perception that can prevail even when all concerned have loving care and best interests in mind...
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  83. Will Medicaid or Medicare Provide Coverage for Long-Term In-Home Care?

    Question - The short answer is that Medicare provides in-home care only in very limited circumstances for a short time, while Medicaid can provide long-term in-home care. Here are the terms under which both programs provide in-home care.
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  84. How can I effectively communicate with in-home caregivers?

    Question - If you are talking about getting assistance in the hospital as an outpatient or at a clinic, I recommend you call ahead to the department you will be interacting with and explain your needs. They should be able to verify your condition and be prepared to help you when you are there, assuming you're going to a facility with a broad range of services...
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  85. Are there programs that can help with the cost of in-home care?

    Question - Unfortunately, there aren't many programs that can help make a dent in the huge cost of caregiving, although you do have some options.
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  86. What happens if in-home care workers do not pay taxes?

    Question - This is a difficult topic, paying taxes for in-home care workers, and one that full employment home care agencies fight in many ways. In Florida the state association for home care even supports this registry model. In California there is a classification for domestic referral agencies that is condoned by the state as well...
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  87. How can we convince my father, who has cancer and can not live alone but insists, to move in with us?

    Question - Many of our readers are struggling with this same issue. One of the hardest things in life is to see a loved one ill or unable to care for himself and not be able to provide the care that you would like to give. Sometimes when a situation becomes totally unsafe, a decision can be forced, but that leaves...
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  88. Should one use Medicare benefits to pay for home care before long term care insurance?

    Question - In the first place, you may not have the choice. The eligibility rules for Medicare home care are quite strict and the care is limited -- skilled nursing care, but only a very limited amount of personal care assistance. So, even if you qualify for Medicare coverage, you may need or want to use...
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  89. Is there any program that offers free or low-cost senior dental care?

    Question - Medicare, the largest program of health care for seniors, doesn't provide any dental care. Neither do Medicare Advantage managed care plans or Medigap private supplemental health insurance plans.Medicaid is the federal/state joint program of health care benefits for certain people, including seniors, who have low income and assets...
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  90. We are considering bringing mom home with help from hospice, any suggestions?

    Question - Hospice is truly about providing a peaceful life closure, usually in the home setting. It sounds like your mother has been through quite a lot. And, often times the hospital will send a patient to a nursing home after an acute admission for various therapies. If you feel you can now care for your mother in your home, then definitely consider hospice...
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  91. Is 1300 a month for a living in home caregiver enough?

    Question - If you are living in the home rent free, I would think that $1300/month is quite enough for two parents in their condition. I am disabled too and I have my son living with me and he is also my caregiver because I have MS-secondary progressive from my time in the USAF...
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  92. Does Medicare Part A help pay for home health aides for dementia patients?

    Question - Does Medicare Part A pay anything on in home health aides for dementia patients to help with bathing, etc.
  93. Can Medicaid take your home to pay for nursing home care?

    Question - She may be confusing the Medicaid program (covers long-term nursing home care that could last for years) with Medicare (limited to just a few months in a nursing home, at best). Medicare would make no claim on her home, so you only need to be concerned about Medicaid...
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  94. What special attention is needed when going home after heart surgery?

    Question - There are four key steps to follow at home to help with your recovery following heart surgery—or any hospital-to-home transition:
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  95. Is home health care part of the Medicaid waiver program SOURCE?

    Question - Yes, home health care is a fundamental part of the SOURCE (Service Options Using Resources in a Community Environment) program. The specific rules of the SOURCE program are slightly different in each state that has it. But the main purpose of SOURCE is to help frail seniors live at home or in a personal...
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  96. Where can I find a list of in-home care providers in my area?

    Question - Hello Markbtn,
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  97. What technology can I use to keep someone safe in their home?

    Question - Is there a conference or exhibit of technology available to keep a person safe in their own home instead of a facility? I am in New York, but able to travel to another state to see an exhibit of this type with lots of options all under one roof. thank you.l
  98. How can I get help for my dad while he's still at home?

    Question - Your story is all too familiar, and the problem is that there needs to be some planning for in-home care, and some professional assistance in so doing.
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  99. Is it time to switch my friend's in-home care provider?

    Question - Changing home care providers is difficult on all levels. This work is not like working on an assembly line. Caring for old people is the front line of compassion. But it is hard to serve with loving kindness when you have so many issues of your own to work out. So how a business is structured is all important...
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  100. What financial assistance for caregivers is available?

    Question - If your mother has low income and assets (other than her home), she might get in-home care from Medicaid. This could be care provided by a certified home care agency. But it's also possible – depending on what state you live in -- to bypass the home care agency and have the state pay your mother dirirectly for her in-home care...
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