Assisted Living, Nursing Homes, and More Questions

1. My parents really need help, but they refuse. What can we do?

   Thanks for this question: you describe so well a common dilemma. You see your parents as troubled. They see themselves as capable. The task is to start where your parents are; then help them along the path of aging in small steps. Patience, patience patience.
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2. My dad has has a stroke and shows signs of dementia, how can I get power of attorney over his affairs?

   My father has had a stroke, and has been ill for 28yrs. His mental statis is very bad. How do i get power of attorney,for any of his affairs, such as his social security check? He dosen't care if he spends it or not. He will not listen to anyone, not us or even his doctors. Our situation with our father is very bad...