Start with a notebook
One of the most important aspects of managing congestive heart failure is keeping track of symptoms, medication side effects, and other concerns. Writing down this information in a notebook will help you the person in your care stay on top of any changes in his condition.
Encourage him to get in the habit of recording basic information whenever possible, including his weight, diet, activity level, breathing difficulties or coughing, and medications taken plus any side effects. Have him note any changes in his condition, including swelling, shortness of breath, and fatigue. Finally, you both should jot down any questions or concerns you'd like to bring up with the doctor.
When visiting the doctor
Most patients have a lot of visits to different doctors. To get the most out of appointments, bring the notebook and try to do the following:
- Prepare a list of questions before each visit. Leave spaces for the answers.
- Take notes during the appointment. If either of you doesn't understand something, don't be afraid to ask for an explanation.
- If the person you're caring for isn't following treatment or lifestyle recommendations, make sure the doctor knows it. Trying to protect him isn't in his best interest.
- Do your best to understand all the doctor's instructions before you leave, but don't hesitate to call the office if you have questions later.

