Coming to terms with the fact that a family member needs to go to a long-term care facility can be difficult and painful. You may feel that you're abandoning her or breaking a promise you once made to care for her. But the most important thing is that the patient gets the care she needs. People who've had a stroke need a safe and healthy environment with the appropriate level of support. If you can't provide that in your home, then a long-term care facility is the best thing for your family member. Although it may be heart wrenching when she asks to go home, realize that you're keeping the spirit of your promise by making sure she gets the best possible care.
