Because the person in your care has Alzheimer's disease you may have to:

• Tell the doctor what you hope and expect from the visit and any recommended treatment.
• If the doctor tells you to do something you know you can't do, such as give medication in the middle of the night, ask if there is another treatment and explain why.
• Insist on talking about the level of care that you believe is appropriate and that agrees with the care receiver's wishes.
• Ask about other options for tests, medications, and surgery.
• Ask why tests or treatments are needed and what the risks are.
• Consider all options, including the pros and cons of "watchful waiting."
• Trust your common sense and if you have doubts, get a second opinion.