Can an Alzheimer's Patient Handle Holiday Parties?

Invite small groups to visit the person at home. A few friends at a time may be more manageable -- and therefore more enjoyable -- than one large party.
If you're hosting, keep the gathering small. Make it a brunch or luncheon if sundown syndrome is a risk.
If you're a caregiver invited to a party, consider having someone stay at home with the person who has dementia rather than bringing her with you. You both may enjoy this arrangement better.
Designate someone to stay at the person's side throughout an event to provide a continuous, calming presence and to prevent wandering. Noise and new faces can overwhelm.
Introduce those who approach the person with dementia, no matter how close a friend or relative they may be: "And here's your niece, Susan!" Don't draw attention to the fact that they were introduced just ten minutes earlier.
Invite the person with Alzheimer's or dementia to join activities such as opening gifts or watching a sports game -- but don't insist that he participate.
Withdraw as needed to a quiet corner or room where the person can feel relaxed and safe, away from loud kids or a cocktail-party crowd. Walk outside, weather permitting.
Monitor the person's intake of alcohol, as he may not be able to remember and track it himself.
Watch for cues that the person has had enough: increased impatience or fretfulness, pulling at clothes, withdrawal. Don't wait until he's overtired.

Holiday Trouble Spot #4: Parties


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