With any method, a little advance planning is essential. The supplies and equipment you'll need will depend on your mom's situation.
Although you can go all out and remodel the bathroom for a senior, this isn't practical -- or affordable -- for many families. A few less ambitious steps can go a long way toward creating safety and comfort.
Bathrooms are wet, slippery places; for a frail parent, they're a hazard zone. Bathing is also a temperature-sensitive activity. We all know the "ouch" of stepping into a too-hot shower, or the "brrr" of being naked in a chilly room.
Make sure the room temperature is warm before starting. Have plenty of dry bath towels and washcloths on hand. Check the water temperature yourself, even if your parent is able to work the faucets. The ability to judge hot or cold by touch declines with age.
Remove loose throw rugs that create a tripping hazard. The same goes for electrical appliances with loose cords, like hair dryers or shavers. Gather up stray soap bars, small bottles, and brushes that may get underfoot. Wiggle the towel and shower curtain bars; if any are loose, as they often are, it's best to remove them altogether rather than risk your mom yanking one off and falling. Some families remove sliding-glass shower doors, which can be perilous in a slip or fall.
Keep necessary supplies like soap, shampoos, and washcloths in a handy, accessible place, such as a plastic basket. A couple of soap pointers: baby soaps and shampoos work as well for the elderly as for the young. They rinse off easily, don't sting the eyes, and are gentle on sensitive skin. No-rinse soaps and shampoos are helpful for people with a strong aversion to water, a trait of some people with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia. But they leave a residue, so you'll still need to rinse now and then.
Handy and life-saving equipment essentials include grab bars, which you can install wherever they're needed; a shower or tub chair; and a rubber hose that attaches to the shower nozzle or tub faucet. A hose allows you to direct the flow of water as needed, and is less irritating than an overhead spray. If your only option is a tub, you may need a "transfer" bench, which allows your mom to swivel or pivot her way inside. You'll find all of these items at medical or hospital supply stores, with options to fit different budgets.
Be very careful when using no-rinse soaps. If not diluted properly, they can cause a terrible, itchy rash that can take weeks to heal. It is better to add more water than recomended and then rinse thoroughly with another clean washcloth with plenty of water. Everyone is better off if you have to change a wet bed than having an unwashed parent or one with a bad rash!
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I met my 96 year old mother's bathing problem by having a bidet put on the toilet. While I sponge bathe her, the warm water sprays on her bottom. There is a spray for the back and one for the front. The last thing we do is wipe the front and back with toilet paper and check to see how clean the areas are. Cream all over helps keep all areas soft and gives added protection from moisture. As an Alzheimer patient, my mother is not afraid to "clean up" for the day. Look for an European bath and kitchen store in your area or go on line to view bidets. What a wonderful invention for a home caregiver!
I have good news for you regarding helping a parent bathe. There's a garment that your loved one can wear in the shower or while bathing. It covers personal body areas and it gets wet during bathing. The accessory is called personal care wear and can be found on www.dignityrc.org Hope this helps!